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Flirting With Men - How To Do It
Sometimes, the best opportunity to
be better at attracting men is lying right under our noses. Everyday, life is full of little chances that
will help us become more of a great personality, which of course leads to
GREATER irresistibility!
Even the most mundane of
situations present a way for you to become better at conversing with folks of
all shapes and sizes (along with quality men!).
Starting today, all you need to do is keep an eye out for chances to
develop your conversational skills and self-confidence in general.
Understandably, women who have not
developed the habit of getting there and mingling with other people will not be
used to kicking off a great conversation.
In other words, the thought of chatting with strangers is unappealing to
these girls or even downright SCARY.
All it really takes are the right
ideas which will help enforce the habit of chatting up all sorts of folks. So for today, THIS is exactly what we are
going to discover.
Of course, if you would like the
shortcut to your seduction success, you can check out Meet Your Sweetheart and Get a Guy Guide:
Now, I would like to familiarize
you with the most basic aspects of being a friendlier, more approachable
version of yourself in order to make men (and other folks in general) naturally
responsive to you.
This is where the importance of
FLIRTING comes in.
You might think that flirting is
about making raunchy innuendo. Perhaps
your idea of being a good flirt has to do with lacing your conversation with
sexual implications and the like.
Well, this is actually just a
misconception, given the fine art of flirting a bad rap these days. The funny truth is that you can flirt with
just about any stranger out there, whether heïs a guy OR a girl!
Before you get all confused with
my last statement, let me clear up what flirting is all about. It is the ability to elicit GOOD FEELINGS
within a person, regardless of gender.
Basically, the point of flirting
is a basic desire to spread feel-good vibes
among the people that you meet
WITHOUT wanting anything in return (like a date or romantic attention!).
Although your intentions for
flirting are to simply have fun with everyone, the ironic twist is that you will
also happen to attract guys in the process!
When you come across as a lady who
has a natural tendency to make EVERYONE around her FEEL GREAT, then that is
what good flirting is all about!
If you are able to associate your presence with positive
emotions, it would make sense for people to want to be around you. With that said, how does a girl go about
working on her flirtation skills?
Before you start handing out words
of praise like they were going out of style tomorrow, you need to have a CLEAR
idea of what this is all about.
Like what I said about sincerity
earlier, you want to make people feel good about themselves with no ulterior
motive. Anyone would be turned off by
someone who was obviously just sucking up to him or her.
This is a great way to establish
some RAPPORT and VALIDATE his personal interests.
And who knows, it may serve as a
starting point for a longer conversation!
In this example, all you wanted to do was to take notice of something
you HONESTLY liked and gave him props for it.
Sometimes, taking the initiative to pay a
sincere compliment goes a long way!
Now that we have established that
flirting is meant to make others feel good, you also need to know about another
important guideline. You can’t generate
those things within someone if you don’t feel good about yourself to begin
with!
For instance, thinking too much is
one of the biggest positive attitude-killers that will keep you from being at
your most flirtatious. Some women have a
tendency to let the inner chatter in their heads DISTRACT them.
I am sure anyone at some point in
their social lives has made the mistake of trying TOO HARD to sound witty or
clever. The end result of this habit is
that you end up thinking of what to say next without bothering to LISTEN to the
person in front of you.
Why pressure yourself and act like
your life depended on it? It doesn’t work
that way!
So do yourself a favor and just
keep your ears peeled to the conversation.
That is the best way to keep the
fun going!
Let me give you an example. Pretend that the guy you are talking to just
told you about a great experience he had camping out with his buddies by the
lake over the weekend.
Maybe he mentioned that he got a
kick out of momentarily leaving his hectic city life behind and relaxing in the
wilderness. Paying ATTENTION to a key
point such as this would then allow you to share some of your own thoughts to
complement his.
Relax into the moment and keep a
cool head about yourself. What should a
sassy girl like you be afraid of anyway?
Flirting is a playful way of
testing the waters with a guy. A
lighthearted verbal exchange is meant to let you know if your personalities are
going to mesh well.
As far as the big picture is concerned,
taking these little hiccups in stride by staying POSITIVE is actually an
attractive trait to have. More
importantly, the motivation for flirting is to simply share your joy for living
with others!
Did he laugh at your jokes? Great!
Did he give you the cold shoulder?
Great!
See, it doesn’t matter because
this does not have any bearing on who you are as a woman. The great thing about these experiences is
that you LEARN from your accomplishments (or mistakes) every time!
So the next time you head out of
the house, don’t forget to ditch the negative self-talk and leave your
unreasonably harsh inner critic at the door!
The general idea is to open up to
the rest of humanity out there and welcome the chances that come your way.
If you want genuine men, and not just any man,
let Mirabelle Summers and the team challenge your beliefs about love and
attraction, and show you the way to become a seduction success story.
No games. No scripted lines. Real
life dating advice for real women!
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